I’m a certified health and nutrition coach with an obsession for croissants and muffins and a passion for helping Brides-to-be, MOBs, and Bridesmaids feel beautiful and confident on the special day they're a part of.
Brides, we all know that the practice of giving and receiving wedding gifts should be about love, but the reality is that it often ends up in confusion and disappointment.
If your wedding guests are left to their own devices when it comes to choosing a gift, they will often select something they would want, without taking your needs into consideration.
And while the gesture may be heartwarming, having a roomful of gifts you have no use for is never a good thing.
Luckily, you can avoid this kind of situation and miscommunication by creating a wedding registry.
There is no right or wrong answer to the “should you or shouldn’t you” question. However, in the interest of having the wedding of your dreams and creating wonderful memories that will last the rest of your life, a wedding registry makes a lot of sense.
When you register at a specific store or through an online service, you are helping your guests by guiding them toward gifts you will truly love. You are essentially taking the guesswork out of it for them, and they will appreciate that. You are also helping yourself by ensuring the gifts you receive will be in line with the overall tone and feel of the rest of your wedding. It’s your opportunity to share your dream gift list with your friends and family!
Far from being greedy or presumptuous, a wedding registry simplifies a process that’s going to take place anyway and makes it far more efficient. Here are some tips to ensure everything goes off without a hitch:
If you decide to forgo a traditional gift registry and would rather receive money as gifts, make sure you give the money a purpose. When you don’t have the money earmarked for a specific purpose, it’s very easy to use it for other things and watch as it dwindles without really doing anything meaningful with it.
Whether it goes toward a down payment for a new house, a car, home furnishings or the honeymoon, give it a specific job to get the most out of it.
More and more couples are choosing to use their wedding gifts as a way to give back through charitable donations. If this sounds like something you’d be interested in, choose two charities; one that is close to your heart and one close to your partner’s heart and then let your guests decide.
When you get the wedding registry part right, it helps maintain that warm and fuzzy feeling and keeps the flow of your wedding process moving right along.
What are you planning to do for your wedding registry? Send me a DM, I’d love to hear what you are planning.
Stephanie began her fitness journey of training women in 2014 as a yoga teacher. As a certified personal trainer and certified health coach, she has since grown her bridal fitness programs for women internationally. Stephanie works with brides and helps them look and feel their best for their big day. Her programs are accessible through her app, from fitness to nutrition, all for brides-to-be! Ready to feel confident in your wedding dress? Get the free Bridal Arms Mini Guide!
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